that results in the deliciousness of a joyful and growth oriented
relationship. It’s a journey in which both partners are supported in
learning to express themselves fully.
Yes! Of course. However, one of the most surprising discoveries at the start of my career was finding that I could help couples improve their sex life without ever talking about sex. Most of the time I find that once a couple communicates about their thoughts and feelings with vulnerability and kindness, they no longer need me to coach them on the sensual and sexual parts of their relationship.
(And when explicit focus on what is happening in the bedroom is needed, it is of great benefit for a couple to have already learned to communicate well.)
Having a fantastic and passionate relationship is something that anyone can learn.
All that is required is education but most people haven’t ever been taught.
What people learn from their parents, sex ed classes, clergy, movies, books, peers or porn is wholly inadequate. With attention and the right education, comes more closeness, pleasure, and joy. With the right skills you’ll communicate better and understand your partner more deeply without sacrificing any parts of yourself.
Before the session, you and your partner will be asked to fill out a questionnaire, in order to
convey your experiences, challenges, and desires.
In your first session your coach will start by asking questions in order to identify where
you are in your relationship.
Your coach will also want to hear what your relationship goals are,
(helping you identify them as needed). This is your chance to dream big and authentically state what you want.
Your coach will describe your personal roadmap for your relationship journey, beginning with where you are now and leading to where you want your relationship to be. Your coach will describe the landscape along the way and articulate milestones you’ll experience so you know what is involved in transforming your marriage into the intimate, connected relationship you desire.
There are many types of intimacy and relationship coaches, with different methods and priorities, as well as their own unique life experiences.
My method follows a six-part framework that focuses on improving communication, building trust, and opening to the juiciness of passion that is uniquely available in long-lasting relationships.
I also draw on my experience coaching hundreds of couples as well as my own 25-year marriage.
While some coaches focus on showing clients how to have success with dating or during the early years of a relationship, I specialize in coaching couples who have been together for years. My clients love one another and want to live the rest of their lives together, but they don’t know how to deepen their connection, re-ignite the spark, and enjoy a beautiful, vibrant, passionate relationship.
I will show you how.