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I would describe my marriage as segmented, before coaching with Dr. Alexandra. We had sex and then there was life outside the bedroom, and they weren’t really connected. Plus we were in a cyclical pattern of harmony followed by disharmony and I was yearning for a deeper/closer sustained connection. I described it as like an iceberg with our marriage looking great above the water line but I wanted increased depth and intimacy below the surface.

As a result of coaching with Dr. Alexandra our marriage is amazing. So deep. So close (and we recover from disagreements much faster.)

I have changed my relationship with myself and I’m able to be, give and receive differently. I also see my husband in a different light. I love him (and myself) more deeply. More completely. I feel sexy and light, and I’m embodying this life and this relationship as a celebration 

Dr. Alexandra is truly a master. An incredible coach. Her thoughtfulness and responses keep surprising me and blowing me away. With her questions and presence, she has a way of making me see things that never even occurred to me. Dr. Alexandra perceives different layers and dimensions and has an approach unlike anyone I have ever coached with.

Also, Dr. Alexandra’s energy embodies the everyday eroticism she stands for. She shows up with so much love, joy, presence and embodiment. She truly offers the highest level of inspiration, and support.”

– Dr. Judith Borger, Pediatric Emergency Medicine, Aesthetic Medicine

– Dr. Judith Borger, Pediatric Emergency Medicine, Aesthetic Medicine

“My wife and I worked with a marriage counselor for 8 months before speaking with Dr. Alexandra. One session with her accomplished more good for our relationship than the whole 8 months with the counselor.

Dr. Alexandra is precise, efficient, encouraging, and you can tell she genuinely cares. She has a skillset that is hard to come by and very much needed, and is very gifted in how she  communicates. My wife and I both felt heard and could easily implement what she told us about how to improve things.
She’s also really good with giving instructions to make physical intimacy more fulfilling and passionate.

We are grateful to Dr. Alexandra for showing us how to transform our marriage and highly recommend working with her, especially if you are a couple consisting of a strong, ambitious woman and a professionally driven man.”

– Sebastian Smelko, Attorney

– Sebastian Smelko, Attorney

“My husband Jeff and I had been married for 21 years before we began working with Dr. Alexandra. While we’d had many ups and downs in our marriage, we were in what felt like a very long down period when we finally decided to call in support. At that point, we were operating like courteous roommates–with little to no emotional intimacy. We hadn’t had sex in nine months! While we communicated often about our children, our connection didn’t go far beyond that (despite looking great from the outside).

Dr. Alexandra had exactly the background and experience to know precisely which tools we needed–both individually and as a couple–and she created a safe space for us to do the work. I recall one session in particular when Jeff was sort of losing it, and Dr. Alexandra was able to navigate so gracefully through the storm, guiding him back to himself and to the safety of our connection.

She really supported me in understanding that our lack of intimacy stemmed from Jeff’s childhood fear of abandonment and his fears of me leaving him. That understanding has been pivotal in me being able to shift both my expectations and my approach within the relationship, and I’m a much more effective partner as a result.

We are SO MUCH CLOSER than we were before. We’ve gotten back to truly enjoying on another’s company and our intimacy is very on track. It all feels so fresh that we decided to recommit, getting married all over again!”

– Susana Acevedo, MD, Pediatrician

– Susana Acevedo, MD, Pediatrician

“With Dr. Alexandra’s guidance, Derek and I have more connection, understanding, and love than ever before. I never could have imagined what would unfold for us, and how I could become a more authentic and powerful version of ME in the process.
Dr. Alexandra is a phenomenally skilled coach and I feel so privileged we got to work with her. I wish every couple could experience what she offers!”

– Dr. Emma Andre

– Dr. Emma Andre

“Before working with Dr. Alexandra, our relationship was a shell of what it is today. We were stuck. We both wanted more out of our marriage but, after more than a decade of marriage, I feared that there was no way to have a truly fulfilling marriage.

As a result of coaching with Dr. Alexandra I very much enjoy spending time with my husband again. I feel seen and known by him and, maybe more importantly, I’m a better version of myself.  Instead of trying to change me, Dr. Alexandra gently coached me to make the changes I bought into and never pushed me in a direction that was inauthentic or made me uncomfortable. I’m more connected to myself and my husband now and we effectively communicate with ease!

The whole process has been transformational. I was skeptical and had very low expectations but I knew that if we didn’t make a change our marriage wouldn’t survive.”

– Heather James, Lawyer

– Heather James, Lawyer

I met Dr. Alexandra Stockwell when I was in crisis.  Resentments and years of frustration had accumulated to the point where they were overwhelming me; I did not have the skillset to answer the challenges that I created for myself.  I had never had to ask for help in my academic or professional life; I had always been able to find my own path to success, not having to look to aid from others.  

While I was extremely successful in my job, I was failing as a husband and father. I acted out and was unfaithful to my wife, pursuing easy fixes to salve my wounded ego and my feelings of inadequacy. The solutions I found to the problems I was creating only made things worse, causing the situation to spiral further into despondency.  

Dr. Alexandra led my reset and helped me navigate the most challenging period of my life.  She guided me in finding my center, my mental balance, and my internal health.  She not only saved my marriage, but it is stronger, more passionate, and more rewarding now than ever before.

I am deeply indebted to Dr. Alexandra and hope that she can continue help others.  She has tremendous insights and is a wealth of knowledge and guidance.”

– Male Doctor, Subspecialty Surgeon

– Heather James, Lawyer

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“Dr. Alexandra is a brilliant coach and mentor. She’s a perceptive listener and has a very nuanced and expansive understanding of what makes people tick. She’s deeply caring and supportive and also speaks directly to what you need to hear to get unstuck.

Before Patrick and I worked with Dr. Alexandra our relationship was good, now it’s fantastic!”

– Marie-Elizabeth Mali, Relationship Alchemist

– Marie-Elizabeth Mali, Relationship Alchemist

“Dr. Alexandra has a big loving and caring heart, but don’t let that fool you… she combines years of experience, business acumen, and ‘in your face’ direct feedback that may not be easy to receive, but is exactly what you need to hear!  Her advice and coaching has helped me overcome some limiting beliefs I was holding onto and enhanced the love and worthiness I feel in my marriage.”

– AJ Yager, Praxis Metrics

– AJ Yager, Praxis Metrics

Working with Dr. Alexandra was such a gift to our marriage. My husband and I have very different energy and styles of communication. Dr. Alexandra was able to see and hold both of us in our fullness with exquisite care and attention. As a result of our work together we have been able to see and appreciate each other more deeply. Our sessions were dynamic and creative, and we are still receiving the benefits.”

– Elana Bell, Poet

– Elana Bell, Poet

“Dr. Alexandra has this gift of quickly getting to the root of an issue. I’m amazed at the level of understanding about me or a situation that she can arrive at in very short order.  Then, armed with this understanding, she is able to present a very clear plan and set of actions to address the need.  

I love that the advice is so practical and specific and can be carried out through a daily or weekly practice.  Dr. Alexandra has had a transformational impact on my life. I have shed so much relationship baggage and really feel happily catapulted into a much bigger and more open world!”

– Brian Mosher, Financial Advisor

– Brian Mosher, Financial Advisor

Through Dr. Alexandra’s guidance and support, we have already progressed more in a few weeks than in our 4 years together.”

– Kelsey Blakeway, Entrepreneur

– Kelsey Blakeway, Entrepreneur

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