You love one another deeply and plan to spend the rest of your lives together.

Your relationship may be stronger than most of the couples you know.

And… you know more is possible.

Deeper emotional connection. More and better sexual intimacy. Really being on the same page about where you are going in your lives with one another.

You may be arguing a bit more, or you may be gladly conflict-free. Either way, you know the two of you are capable of a great deal more passion and dynamic energy.

But you can’t figure out how to make it happen.

You know how to make things happen in the rest of your life, and you resent feeling unsure how to do so in your relationship.

You are devoted to your own personal growth in most other areas of your life and now you want to work with someone on your relationship. The thing is, it has to be the right person.  It has to be someone who is experienced, wise, compassionate, nuanced, and playful.

It has to be someone who is well trained, has years of experience, and really walks her talk in her own marriage.

You’ve come to the right place.

My mission is to build happy and connected families through facilitating healing and transformation for couples.

I am changing the cultural narrative that says passion tapers off as the years pass, because the truth is that emotional connection and expansive, erotic intimacy are uniquely available in long lasting love–all it takes is the desire to make it happen and the education to show you how.

About Dr. Alexandra.

Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is an Intimate Marriage Expert. She is the bestselling author of Uncompromising Intimacy, host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, and the creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.


For over 20 years, she has shown men and women how to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life–from the daily grind of running a household, to clear and intimate communication, to ecstatic experiences in the bedroom!


She believes the key to passion, fulfillment, intimacy, and success in a couple’s relationship isn’t compromise–it’s being unwilling to compromise–because when both people feel free to be themselves, and know how to love and be loved for exactly who they are, the relationship is juicy, nourishing, and deeply satisfying.


Dr. Alexandra has been featured in the Huffington Post, Rolling Stone, Cosmopolitan, USAToday, Business Insider, InStyle, FOX News NYC, and many other publications.



As Dr.Alexandra’s private client you’ll dive deep, and soar, in delicious, bespoke experiences designed to show you how to bring playfulness, excellent communication, emotional connection, electric passion, and ease to your relationship.

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“Jeff and I had been married for 21 years when we started working with Alexandra. At the time we were functioning like courteous roommates–with little to no emotional intimacy. We hadn’t had sex in nine months!

While we communicated often about our children, our connection didn’t go far beyond that.

Jeff and I are so much closer now! As a result of Alexandra’s coaching, we truly enjoy one another’s company and have fallen back in love with one another.

Our marriage feels so fresh that we decided to recommit and get married all over again!”

- Susana Acevedo, MD

She has such a unique skill of being able to see right to the root of your ‘problems’ and bring out the excellence that lives in your heart.

With her inner sight, I was able to reach into my issues, which were loaded with shame, guilt, hopelessness, judgement and self-doubt.

While a good coach might have helped me get better, Alexandra is a great coach in that she empowered me to do the work myself .

Because of her ability to communicate her total love and approval for ALL OF ME, I felt deeply seen and effortlessly inspired to be my very, very best, most excellent self.”

- Tania Sethi, Aesthetician

Through coaching and mentorship with Alexandra,

I’ve grown in my ability to navigate the challenges in my life, gained crucial skills I use in every area of my life, and, most importantly, transformed my relationship. 

Alexandra has a very nuanced and expansive understanding of what makes people tick.

She’s caring and supportive, and also speaks directly to what you need to hear to get unstuck.

Patrick and I had a great relationship, and now it’s fantastic.”

- Marie-Elizabeth Mali, TEDx Speaker

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