You love one another deeply and plan to spend the rest of your lives together.

Your relationship may be stronger than most of the couples you know.

And… you know more is possible.

Deeper emotional connection. More and better sexual intimacy. Really being on the same page about where you are going in your lives with one another.

You may be arguing a bit more, or you may be gladly conflict-free. Either way, you know the two of you are capable of a great deal more passion and dynamic energy.

But you can’t figure out how to make it happen.

You know how to make things happen in the rest of your life, and you resent feeling unsure how to do so in your relationship.

You are devoted to your own personal growth in most other areas of your life and now you want to work with someone on your relationship. The thing is, it has to be the right person.  It has to be someone who is experienced, wise, compassionate, nuanced, and playful.

It has to be someone who is well trained, has years of experience, and really walks her talk in her own marriage.

You’ve come to the right place.

My mission is to build happy and connected families through facilitating healing and transformation for couples.

I am changing the cultural narrative that says passion tapers off as the years pass, because the truth is that emotional connection and expansive, erotic intimacy are uniquely available in long lasting love–all it takes is the desire to make it happen and the education to show you how.

About Dr. Alexandra.

Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is an Intimate Marriage Expert. She is the bestselling author of Uncompromising Intimacy, host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, and the creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.

For over 20 years I’ve shown men and women how to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life: from the daily grind of running a household, to intimate communication and ecstatic experiences in the bedroom–all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

She believes the key to passion, fulfillment, intimacy, and success in a couple’s relationship isn’t compromise–it’s being unwilling to compromise–because when both people feel free to be themselves, and know how to love and be loved for exactly who they are, the relationship is juicy, nourishing, and deeply satisfying.

Dr. Alexandra has been featured in the Huffington Post, Rolling Stone, Cosmopolitan, USAToday, Business Insider, InStyle, FOX News NYC, and many other publications.



As Dr.Alexandra’s private client you’ll dive deep, and soar, in delicious, bespoke experiences designed to show you how to bring playfulness, excellent communication, emotional connection, electric passion, and ease to your relationship.

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“Our relationship before Alexandra was a roller coaster of emotions, reactivity, and explosive arguments. We were both exhausted by the constant struggle and questioned our decision to get married. Now, since working with Alexandra, we’ve learned how to navigate our individual emotional challenges so that we can take better care of each other. We respect each other, even when we disagree or feel hurt. We are a happily married couple and have built a strong foundation for our life together!”

- Julia, Public Speaking Trainer & Andrew, Commercial Real Estate Agent

“My partner and I came into coaching with Alexandra with what felt like a concrete and intractable dilemma in which we were making no progress on our own. Alexandra deftly untangled history and the impact of underlying stories within our dilemma, transforming it into a shared focus of our relationship. We became partners on the issue, rather than on opposing sides. 


The insights and practices learned from working with Alexandra have been vital outside of my romantic partnership as well. I bring these skills into my work, my family relationships, and perhaps, most importantly, how I treat myself.”


- Benjamin Emmert-Aronson Ph.D., Co-Founder, Open Source Wellness

- Benjamin Emmert-Aronson Ph.D., Co-Founder, Open Source Wellness

- Benjamin Emmert-Aronson Ph.D., Co-Founder, Open Source Wellness

“Alexandra helped me turn blame and toxic thoughts into loving, compassionate thoughts and responsibility. This change in my perspective positively impacted how I show up in my relationship, as the shifts in my patterns have allowed me a willingness and ability to connect and grow. 


I am now open to receiving what my partner wants to share with me. Even the gifts she gives me are now aligned with who I am and how I want to be loved. I have so much more resilience and a greater ability to navigate difficult emotions and stressful moments in our family life.”

- Diego Ventura, Professional Poker Player

“Before Patrick and I worked with Alexandra, our relationship was good. Now it’s fantastic!

Alexandra is a brilliant coach and mentor. She’s a perceptive listener and has a very nuanced and expansive understanding of what makes people tick. Through coaching with Alexandra, I’ve grown my ability to navigate the challenges in my life, transformed my relationship, and gained crucial interpersonal skills I use in every area of my life.”

- Marie- Elizabeth Mali, Founder & CEO of Relationship Alchemy

“Alexandra has this gift of quickly getting to the root of an issue. I’m amazed at the level of understanding about me or a situation that she can arrive at in very short order. Then, armed with this understanding, she is able to present a very clear plan and set of actions to address the need. I love that her advice is so practical and specific and can be carried out through a daily or weekly practice.


Alexandra has had a transformational impact on my life. I really feel catapulted forward to a much bigger and more open world! Thank you so much!”

- Brian Mosher, Financial Advisor

“It is truly a magical experience to be guided by Alexandra to the realization that all the answers are within yourself and true fulfillment and pleasure is indeed possible. Alexandra’s guidance around how to be curious with myself opened up so many new possibilities in how I choose to express myself to my partner and how I choose to show up as a confident, sensual woman in all facets of my life. So incredibly grateful for Alexandra’s support and guidance!”

- Ursula C., Corporate Project Manager

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