Private
Relationship and Intimacy Coaching
Yes, you really can have it all.
You already know how to succeed in your career and other areas of your life.
Now it’s time to put your attention on your marriage.
Honestly…it’s probably past time.
Stop compromising.
Stop waiting for your partner to change.
Passion, collaboration, and fulfillment are built on authenticity and self-expression.
You haven’t seen this modeled, because it’s rare.
Guidance to become “more feminine” or “more masculine” feels way off base.
Knowing one another’s love languages isn’t enough.
Getting a new sex toy only goes so far.
In other areas of life, you aim higher and accomplish more.
Let that guide you in your
marriage too…
Before working with Dr. Alexandra, our relationship was a shell of what it is today. We
were stuck. We both wanted more out of our marriage but, after more than a decade of
marriage, I feared that there was no way to have a truly fulfilling marriage.
Now, that’s exactly what we have.
were stuck. We both wanted more out of our marriage but, after more than a decade of
marriage, I feared that there was no way to have a truly fulfilling marriage.
Now, that’s exactly what we have.
Before working with Dr. Alexandra, our relationship was a shell of what it is today. We were stuck. We both wanted more out of our marriage but, after more than a decade of marriage, I feared that there was no way to have a truly fulfilling marriage.
Now, that’s exactly what we have.
Heather James, Lawyer
How It Works:
Intimacy Roadmap Session
The first step in Private Relationship and Intimacy Coaching with me is an Intimacy Roadmap Session. During this session, I’ll ask questions and coach you, listening to what you say and what’s unspoken too. You each are influenced by personal, familial, and societal conditioning, which impacts how you communicate with one another and how you orient to intimacy. That’s all good, except when your patterns bump against your partner’s and it’s jarring, complicated, and disappointingly out of sync.
Efficient, Insightful, and Deep
When we meet you won’t have to rehash all the details, slog through the past, and re-open old wounds. Between the details you share in a questionnaire (to be filled out before we meet), and my ability to perceive patterns and articulate them, the whole process is quite efficient. Some people talk about x-ray vision; in this arena mine is more like an MRI.
The Power of Understanding
Once I lay it out, couples often feel a huge shift just from understanding what has been happening - or more likely not happening. This leads to compassion, connection, and hope - always more hope.
I routinely hear that couples get more from their Intimacy Roadmap Session than they have in months of traditional talk therapy. That being said, many clients have never worked with a coach or therapist before, because they prefer to handle things themselves. With me, they find bringing in an expert to be the game changer that gives them the tools they’ll use for the rest of their lives.
I routinely hear that couples get more from their Intimacy Roadmap Session than they have in months of traditional talk therapy. That being said, many clients have never worked with a coach or therapist before, because they prefer to handle things themselves. With me, they find bringing in an expert to be the game changer that gives them the tools they’ll use for the rest of their lives.
Investment & Ongoing Support
The investment for an Intimacy Roadmap Session is $1000. For some couples, it serves as a profound reset and you’re good to go. For others, it serves as inspiration and a roadmap for ongoing coaching.
Ongoing coaching is highly customized based on your personalities, needs, desires, and relationship context. We will meet at a frequency and duration that suits your goals, and your schedule; it’s typically over a number of months with a low to mid-five-figure investment.
Ongoing coaching is highly customized based on your personalities, needs, desires, and relationship context. We will meet at a frequency and duration that suits your goals, and your schedule; it’s typically over a number of months with a low to mid-five-figure investment.
“My wife and I worked with a marriage counselor for 8 months before speaking with Dr. Alexandra. One session with her accomplished more good for our relationship than the whole 8 months with the counselor.
Sebastian Smelko, Attorney
What’s Next?
Fill out the application for private coaching with me.
If you have questions, put them in your application.
Once I review your application, I’ll respond via email within a few days.
If I accept you as clients, I’ll send you an invoice and we’ll schedule your Intimacy Roadmap Session.
I work with a small number of couples all over the world and am usually able to accommodate any time zone.
“With Dr. Alexandra’s guidance, we have more connection, understanding, love, and passion, than ever before. I never could have imagined what would unfold for us, and how I could become a more authentic and powerful version of ME in the process.”
Dr Emma Andre
If you are ambitious and driven, and committed to upleveling your
relationship, I look forward to speaking with you soon!
My mission is to build happy and connected families through facilitating healing and transformation for couples.
I am committed to changing the cultural narrative that says passion tapers off as the years pass, because the truth is that emotional connection and expansive, erotic intimacy are uniquely available in long lasting love–all it takes is the desire to make it happen and the education to show you how.
Private Relationship and
Intimacy Coaching
As Dr.Alexandra’s private client you’ll dive deep, and soar, in delicious, bespoke experiences designed to show you how to bring playfulness, excellent communication, emotional connection, electric passion, and ease to your relationship.
Click below and we’ll start the conversation.
Feedback from my clients
As a result of coaching with Dr. Alexandra our marriage is amazing. So deep. So close (and we recover from disagreements much faster.)
Dr. Judith Borger, Pediatric Emergency Medicine, Aesthetic Medicine
As a very successful subspecialty surgeon, I had never had to ask for help in my academic or professional life; I had always been able to find my own path to success, without looking to anyone else for help. However, despite being very successful in my job, I was failing as a husband.
We chose to work with Dr. Alexandra. Now my marriage is stronger, more passionate, and more rewarding than ever before.”
Anonymous (Male Subspecialty Surgeon)
When we met Dr. Alexandra we were operating like courteous roommates–with little to no emotional intimacy, and no sex for nine months. As a result of couples coaching with her, we are SO MUCH CLOSER than we were before. We’ve gotten back to truly enjoying on another’s company and our intimacy is very on track.
Susana Acevedo, MD, Pediatrician
My partner and I thought of ourselves as excellent communicators before coaching. The truth was, when push came to shove, we sometimes struggled to express ourselves, or stayed silent for fear of hurting one another. Dr. Alexandra coached us to become masters of emotional intimacy (and in the process our sex life improved beyond what we knew was possible).
Molly, Writer
FEATURED IN
I'm Alexandra Stockwell, MD, also known as "The Intimacy Doctor."
I am an Intimate Marriage Expert, the bestselling author of Uncompromising Intimacy, host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, and the creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.
For over 20 years I’ve shown men and women how to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life: from the daily grind of running a household, to intimate communication and ecstatic experiences in the bedroom–all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!
I believe the key to passion, fulfillment, intimacy, and success in a couple’s relationship isn’t compromise–it’s being unwilling to compromise–because when both people feel free to be themselves, and know how to love and be loved for exactly who they are, the relationship is juicy, nourishing, and deeply satisfying.
I have been featured in the New York Times, Huffington Post, Rolling Stone, Cosmopolitan, USAToday, Business Insider, InStyle, FOX News NYC, and many other publications.