Are you feeling like it would be nice for you and your partner to spend more time together, to feel desired, or to feel desire? Are you feeling numb, stale, disconnected, lacking the intimacy your marriage once had?
Going on a fancy vacation, getting new lingerie, getting your hair done, losing a few pounds, none of those things will fix the problem. Those are short-term, external, temporary arrangements. If you want to revive your connection, it happens with changes on the inside. Personal development, self-awareness, noticing when you’re being reactive, being more accepting of yourself and your partner, that’s what’s going to create the juicy connection and intimacy you’re looking for.
What is it that creates happiness in relationships? What do you need to put your attention on? That’s the question I’m exploring in this season.
Consider for yourself:
- What are your thoughts?
- What are your assumptions?
- What have you been telling yourself you need to have in order to be happy?
Once you identify the stories you’ve been telling yourself, it’s much easier to dismantle them and step into what you really need in order to really enjoy your life.
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