INITIATING

AN online program for Educated, Successful Men

who want More, and Better, Sex

Starting February 12, 2026

Next cohort coming soon

Most of what you’ve been taught is wrong.

There’s nothing formulaic about successfully initiating sex with a woman,

however, the more masterful you become, the more she will respond!

You will learn

The single most important skill you need to get your woman to turn towards you sexually
Why words vs. touch matters, and when to use each of them
The surprising move to open her heart (and her legs) so she no longer puts up walls
Your blind spot that gets in the way every time, and the simple shift she’ll adore

6-7:15 PM Pacific /
9-10:15PM Eastern

Online, with replays available

$249.00

“Having a fantastic sex life is a learnable skill.”

- Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Live sessions on zoom

February 12, 19, 26 and March 5, 12

6-7 PM pacific / 9-10 Eastern

Recordings will be sent out 24 hours after each session

$279

“INITIATING is not about positions. It’s not about macho behavior either. Stockwell teaches how improving your energy and attitude change the game for intimacy with your wife. It’s not a "three steps and you're done" kind of process--what she teaches is more sophisticated and it will change how you interact with your wife—and that makes a big difference.”

"My wife and I are so much more connected than we were before I joined INITIATING.”

“As a result of this program, I changed how I hold my wife, and kiss her; she certainly has noticed the change and is much more responsive.”

"After a long period of time, with many episodes of feeling rejected when I tried to initiate sex, I knew something had to change. It was nice being in a forum with other men who are experiencing the same issues and are open and willing to talk about them in a mature manner. I learned a lot and am continuing to implement it. My wife and I definitely feel much closer now!”

“I have always struggled with initiating, especially trying to avoid doing/saying the same thing each time. The program helped "normalize" my struggles and more importantly, it gave me actionable steps on how to improve. I am more comfortable now, and confident, just being myself. And fortunately, my wife is very happy with my progress. I know because she says so, and because she says “yes” more often.”

Meet your teacher,
Alexandra Stockwell, MD

also known as “The Intimacy Doctor."

Dr. Alexandra has been happily married to Rodd Stockwell, MD; for over 30 years. She is the bestselling author of Uncompromising Intimacy, host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, and the creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.

For over 20 years she’s shown men and women how to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life: from the daily grind of running a household, to intimate communication and ecstatic experiences in the bedroom–all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

Dr. Alexandra has been featured in The Huffington Post, Rolling Stone, Cosmopolitan, USAToday, Business Insider, InStyle, FOX News NYC, and many other publications.

FAQs

I want to learn these skills, but it’s super awkward to talk about it with others.

Yes, of course it can be awkward. However, the main reason it’s awkward is because it’s unfamiliar. Also, you don’t need to share anything you don’t want to.

More importantly, prior participants have always appreciated having the experience of honest, respectful conversation with other men wanting to improve the intimacy in their relationships.

“It was nice being in a forum with other men who are experiencing the same issues and are open and willing to talk about them in a mature manner.”

This sounds great, but I wonder if improvement is possible for me.

Most likely, you haven’t seen results because you haven’t had access to well calibrated, actionable guidance designed for men who are successful in other areas of life and yearning to experience the same in marriage.

All that is required is an open mind and a willingness to learn.

“After a long time and many episodes of feeling rejected when I tried to initiate sex, I knew something had to change. After this coaching program, it did! I still need to keep in mind what I learned, but I am very happy.”

I know things could be better sexually, but the main issue is my wife’s lack of interest.

Most often, when a man learns to ask for sex in a more appealing manner, his wife becomes more interested. It makes it easier for her to feel her desire. Sometimes, she wants him to be more assertive and he doesn’t know how to do so without being a jerk. Both situations will be addressed throughout the program.

“On Sunday evening after the program ended, my wife and I were on the couch together, watching TV. She reached for my hand and said “I really do love just hanging out with you and doing things together.” That is when I realize how far things have come in the past month plus.”

Will there be scripts to use to successfully initiate sex?

No. This program will help you become more discerning and more confident. You won’t need scripts, because you’ll be able to trust yourself when it comes to authenticity and spontaneity.

I have never taken a class on something this personal and am hesitant to do so.

That’s understandable, because there is so much shame in our culture when it comes to intimacy and sex. Even so, we are bombarded with unhelpful messaging from porn, religious institutions, and most men suffer from an absence of useful and relevant education.

The real question is this: are you more comfortable not having sex than you will be participating in this program?

I am confident and successful in other areas of my life and don’t want to deal with feeling insecure about initiating sex.

Not dealing with this issue has its own costs. The ROI on dealing with feeling insecure and unsuccessful in initiating sex with your wife is quite high! Isn’t it worth it?

I am really busy and not sure I can make the calls.

All calls are recorded. If you miss a session, you’ll be able to watch the replay.

Will I be having more sex by the end of the class?

Probably. Most men do. Putting aside time constraints, illness, and other stressors, it will depend on how dedicated you are to implement what you learn.