You’re amazing at taking care of everyone else’s needs (at least most of the time).
You are ambitious, and have the results to show for it.
You value family, professional achievement, and personal satisfaction.
You know how to make things happen and can handle whatever gets thrown at you.
The first time someone asked me to write down my desires, I just stared at the blank paper and hoped no one would notice my page was blank.
I could ‘ve written a grocery list, or what my kids needed for camp, or the most detailed description of my work projects…but a list of what I desire…I didn’t know where to begin!
I was so sick of feeling disappointed…without really knowing what was missing.
It’s also full of new shoes, luxury travel, a steady supply of fresh flowers, and the most exquisite kisses…
You are a woman, and you deserve to enjoy your dreams and desires!
Feel your desire for affection, passion, and joy, as well as for shoes, vacations, and a dream house…
Let yourself dream about what’s possible because knowing exactly what you want is key to getting it.
Do you desire something that’s taboo, something that someone like you isn’t supposed to want? Are you too much for the people around you? Is it uncomfortable when you get what you want?
Learn how to enjoy your desires, and integrate them into your life.
You may know exactly what you want, feel great about having it, but somehow it never comes your way.
It’s time to master the missing piece and ask for what you want so that it feels really good to give it to you.
Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is an Intimate Marriage Expert. She is the bestselling author of Uncompromising Intimacy, host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, and the creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.
For over 20 years I’ve shown men and women how to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life: from the daily grind of running a household, to intimate communication and ecstatic experiences in the bedroom–all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!
She believes the key to passion, fulfillment, intimacy, and success in a couple’s relationship isn’t compromise–it’s being unwilling to compromise–because when both people feel free to be themselves, and know how to love and be loved for exactly who they are, the relationship is juicy, nourishing, and deeply satisfying.
Dr. Alexandra has been featured in the Huffington Post, Rolling Stone, Cosmopolitan, USAToday, Business Insider, InStyle, FOX News NYC, and many other publications.
“The Desires course is wonderful. It was inspiring and I am really happy I found it.
Alexandra is amazing. I love her words, how she talks, her emotions and her energy.
The whole thing really resonated for me. The 3 days were so much fun, so empowering, and yes…
I deserve what I desire!!!!”
“I didn’t know what my desires were, (and I hadn’t realized it). Through taking Dr. Alexandra Stockwell’s Desires course, I became aware that I had created a persona based on what I thought I wanted due to external influences. As a result of Desires, I discovered what I truly want. I had so many “aha” moments and have used what I learned to completely transform my life! I now have a wonderful relationship (because I was able to say what I wanted, and to my surprise, I learned that he wanted the same thing)! I trusted my desire to move across the country and I love my new home. I have learned to speak my truth, and as a result, my whole life is more passionate, authentic, and joyful.”
“As a result of Alexandra’s guidance, and learning to think that what I want matters, I’ve resolved to become the star of my own life! Alexandra’s teachings offer a wonderful perspective, always thinking outside the box. She is original and every course of hers I take, really enriches my life in ways that are both really obvious and also kind of intangible. I trust myself more and I know how to tell my husband when something is important to me (even if it’s inconvenient for him). With practice these conversations have become easier, and sometimes fun! I am much happier now!”