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Do you want to feel alive, dynamic, and lit up?

Do you want to love your amazing life?

Do you want to experience a sensually delicious relationship?

Welcome to
    "Desires: Awaken the Woman Within"

You're really good at making things happen at work and at home.

You’re amazing at taking care of everyone else’s needs (at least most of the time).

You are ambitious, and have the results to show for it.

You value family, professional achievement, and personal satisfaction.

You know how to make things happen and can handle whatever gets thrown at you.

When will it be your turn?

  • Do you know what everyone else needs but you’re not really sure what you need–and don’t know when you’ll be able to figure that out?
  • Do you have lots of desires, but feel shut down and ashamed about it?
  • Do you know what you want but feel uncomfortable asking for it,
    or receiving it?

Look, I get it!

The first time someone asked me to write down my desires, I just stared at the blank paper and hoped no one would notice my page was blank.

I could ‘ve written a grocery list, or what my kids needed for camp, or the most detailed description of my work projects…but a list of what I desire…I didn’t know where to begin!

I was so sick of feeling disappointed…without really knowing what was missing.

I learned to dance with my desires
...and my life has never been the same!

Now life is vibrant, full of joy, laughter, playfulness, and delight.

It’s also full of new shoes, luxury travel, a steady supply of fresh flowers, and the most exquisite kisses…


You are a woman, and you deserve to enjoy your dreams and desires!

Desires: Awaken the Woman Within

Through participating in this course you will know how to

1. Identify Your Desires

Feel your desire for affection, passion, and joy, as well as for shoes, vacations, and a dream house…

Let yourself dream about what’s possible because knowing exactly what you want is key to getting it.

2. Enjoy Receiving

Do you desire something that’s taboo, something that someone like you isn’t supposed to want? Are you too much for the people around you? Is it uncomfortable when you get what you want?

Learn how to enjoy your desires, and integrate them into your life.

3. Ask for What You Want

You may know exactly what you want, feel great about having it, but somehow it never comes your way.

It’s time to master the missing piece and ask for what you want so that it feels really good to give it to you.

Access Your Desires and Awaken the Woman Within You

  • Understand the importance of your desires, where they come from and why they matter.
  • Reflect on your conditioning and let go of shame.
  • Learn to communicate your desires so it feels wonderful to honor them.
  • Course includes:
    • self-paced modules that will make you smile and invite you to consider new perspectives
    • delicious, inspiring videos
    • a wonderful workbook

About Dr. Alexandra

Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is an Intimate Marriage Expert. She is the bestselling author of Uncompromising Intimacy, host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, and the creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.

For over 20 years I’ve shown men and women how to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life: from the daily grind of running a household, to intimate communication and ecstatic experiences in the bedroom–all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

She believes the key to passion, fulfillment, intimacy, and success in a couple’s relationship isn’t compromise–it’s being unwilling to compromise–because when both people feel free to be themselves, and know how to love and be loved for exactly who they are, the relationship is juicy, nourishing, and deeply satisfying.

Dr. Alexandra has been featured in the Huffington Post, Rolling Stone, Cosmopolitan, USAToday, Business Insider, InStyle, FOX News NYC, and many other publications.



Testimonials For


“The Desires course is wonderful. It was inspiring and I am really happy I found it.
Alexandra is amazing. I love her words, how she talks, her emotions and her energy.
The whole thing really resonated for me. The 3 days were so much fun, so empowering, and yes…
I deserve what I desire!!!!”

- MonikaLucia Steiner, MD

“I didn’t know what my desires were, (and I hadn’t realized it). Through taking Dr. Alexandra Stockwell’s Desires course, I became aware that I had created a persona based on what I thought I wanted due to external influences. As a result of Desires, I discovered what I truly want. I had so many “aha” moments and have used what I learned to completely transform my life! I now have a wonderful relationship (because I was able to say what I wanted, and to my surprise, I learned that he wanted the same thing)! I trusted my desire to move across the country and I love my new home. I have learned to speak my truth, and as a result, my whole life is more passionate, authentic, and joyful.”

- Alice Bronstein, host of Beautiful People Podcast

“As a result of Alexandra’s guidance, and learning to think that what I want matters, I’ve resolved to become the star of my own life! Alexandra’s teachings offer a wonderful perspective, always thinking outside the box. She is original and every course of hers I take, really enriches my life in ways that are both really obvious and also kind of intangible. I trust myself more and I know how to tell my husband when something is important to me (even if it’s inconvenient for him). With practice these conversations have become easier, and sometimes fun! I am much happier now!”

- Zara, MD

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