When Opposites Attract, with Monica and Ben Tanner

Together for 19 years, parents to 4 amazing children, Monica and Ben have very different personalities and passions. They have cracked the code on being… Continue reading When Opposites Attract, with Monica and Ben Tanner

Why I Really Do What I Do

Alexandra reveals what really drives her in her work with couples. She believes the very best thing she can do to help children, and create… Continue reading Why I Really Do What I Do

From Infidelity to Commitment and Passion, with Gen and Ray Stoney

The Irresistible Love Coach Gen Stoney and her adoring husband Ray Stoney have an amazing marriage and two lovely little boys. They bring humor and… Continue reading From Infidelity to Commitment and Passion, with Gen and Ray Stoney

You Will Never Shock Me

In this surprising episode, Alexandra shares that no matter what it is that scares you about yourself, you will never shock her. She seems conventional… Continue reading You Will Never Shock Me

Inspiring One Another’s Growth with Sara and Marco Longoria

This is the first time that Sara & Marco have done an interview together. On the way to becoming a super successful, international businesswoman and… Continue reading Inspiring One Another’s Growth with Sara and Marco Longoria

From Physician to Relationship and Intimacy Expert

In her mid-30s Alexandra had accomplished all of her goals-she was a doctor, married, with children–and she expected to feel satisfied. But she didn’t. She… Continue reading From Physician to Relationship and Intimacy Expert

When Two Alphas Meet, with Melanie Ann Layer and Kevin Bruce Scott

Melanie Ann Layer has built a multi-million dollar brand through working on herself first. In her programs she often shares the story of how she… Continue reading When Two Alphas Meet, with Melanie Ann Layer and Kevin Bruce Scott

My Relationship Philosophy

Alexandra shares her philosophy of relationships, which will permeate all of her interviews with guests and each solo episode as well. Her take is fresh… Continue reading My Relationship Philosophy

TRAILER – The Marriage Podcast

Looking for more intimacy and aliveness in your marriage, and in your life? Alexandra Stockwell is a Physician turned Relationship and Intimacy Expert who specializes… Continue reading TRAILER – The Marriage Podcast

33 – Reflections on Season 1

Listen in as Josephine and Alexandra share what they learned from podcasting as a mother-daughter duo. They have a lot of fun reviewing their experience… Continue reading 33 – Reflections on Season 1

32 – The Rabbi Meets Modern Millennial Relationships

In this cross-posted episode, we talk with our guest Rabbi Shlomo Elkan who is the host of the “Soul Searchers” podcast. In this deep conversation,… Continue reading 32 – The Rabbi Meets Modern Millennial Relationships

31 – Healing the Mind, Body, and Spirit through Dance, with Shawnrey Notto

Healing from abuse is something that is deeply personal and connected. Listen in as Alexandra and Josephine chat with Shawnrey Notto who experienced healing through… Continue reading 31 – Healing the Mind, Body, and Spirit through Dance, with Shawnrey Notto

30 – Pacing Yourself while Pursuing Goals

Josephine’s friend Caleb has felt the tension between pursuing his goals versus honoring how he feels in the moment. He asked us whether it’s better… Continue reading 30 – Pacing Yourself while Pursuing Goals

29 – From Rock Bottom to Rock Star! with Gen Stoney

It’s never too late to turn your life around! Gen Stoney is a testament to this. Listen in as Gen shares her incredible journey, going… Continue reading 29 – From Rock Bottom to Rock Star! with Gen Stoney

28 – Healing from Betrayal, with Debi Silber

Have you been betrayed? Have you healed from it, or do you remain hesitant to trust others, in the context of relationships, work, or family?… Continue reading 28 – Healing from Betrayal, with Debi Silber

27 – Can Mothers and Daughters be BFFs?

Can you be friends with your children? Can mothers and daughters truly be best friends? Can a friendly power-child relationship exist between strong and independent… Continue reading 27 – Can Mothers and Daughters be BFFs?

26 – Bridging Political and Religious Divides

Can you connect, or build relationships, when your political or religious views differ? Josephine went on a zoom date with a man with opposing political… Continue reading 26 – Bridging Political and Religious Divides

25 – Trying to Create New Relationships When You Can’t Stand Chitchat

How do you build relationships when you have a hard time communicating about anything mundane? Josephine and Alexandra talk with a tech whiz, a super… Continue reading 25 – Trying to Create New Relationships When You Can’t Stand Chitchat

24 – Pandemic Fatherhood

Parenting during the COVID-19 pandemic has been stressful. Becoming a new parent during these times is especially challenging. Listen in as Alexandra and Josephine chat… Continue reading 24 – Pandemic Fatherhood

23 – Stories About Belonging

Have you ever struggled with feeling like you didn’t fit in?  Antesa Jensen always knew she wanted to leave home. She describes moving to France,… Continue reading 23 – Stories About Belonging

22 – Addicted to Porn as a Young Boy

Does exposure to pornography change your sexual expectations? Alexandra and Josephine’s guest shares that he discovered pornography at an early age. With a Catholic school… Continue reading 22 – Addicted to Porn as a Young Boy

21 – When there’s Cheating in your Relationship

What does infidelity mean for the strength and longevity of a relationship? Alexandra and Josephine answer your questions about cheating in your relationship. Does one… Continue reading 21 – When there’s Cheating in your Relationship

20 – Disconnect From Your Mother

How do you cope with a parent that is not present the way you need him/her to be? Listen in as Alexandra and Josephine talk… Continue reading 20 – Disconnect From Your Mother

19 – Newly Divorced

Going through divorce often leads to a whole new identity or sense of self. Elyna shares she was deeply devoted to the success of her… Continue reading 19 – Newly Divorced

18 – It’s Lonely at the Top

What sacrifices are being made in the name of success? Meet Chris! At the young age of 21 he has been extremely successful. He has… Continue reading 18 – It’s Lonely at the Top

17 – Rediscovering Yourself

What if an essential part of you was instantly gone? Listen in as Alexandra and Josephine talk to Alyssa! Growing up Alyssa practiced violin almost… Continue reading 17 – Rediscovering Yourself

16 – Mother-Daughter Talks: Diversity and Inclusion

Listen in as Josephine turns the tables and interviews Alexandra about her relationship with her mother. Alexandra shares stories about her early years during the… Continue reading 16 – Mother-Daughter Talks: Diversity and Inclusion

15 – Maintaining Cultural Values as a New Immigrant

Josephine’s friend Yip moved by himself from Hong Kong to the United States when he was 17. He’s now sheltering in place with his family… Continue reading 15 – Maintaining Cultural Values as a New Immigrant

14 – Communication In Relationships

As they say, communication is key. But how do you communicate effectively when different styles exist? Josephine’s brother Christopher joins the conversation! Alexandra, Josephine, and… Continue reading 14 – Communication In Relationships

13 – Learning to Trust Yourself

Do you truly know who you are or are you becoming someone else’s version of you? One of Josephine’s best friends, Hannah, describes being adaptable… Continue reading 13 – Learning to Trust Yourself

12 – Confidence is the Key to Success with Susie Moore

Susie Moore is a confidence maven and the bestselling author of Stop Checking Your Likes. Listen in as Susie, Josephine, and Alexandra talk about confidence, what stops… Continue reading 12 – Confidence is the Key to Success with Susie Moore

11 – Success in Long Distance Relationships

Does absence make the heart grow fonder? Alexandra and Josephine talk with 20 year old Cousin Emily about the amazing cooperative learning program at Northeastern… Continue reading 11 – Success in Long Distance Relationships

10 – Being Ghosted

There is nothing more frustrating than having a connection and never hearing from that person again! Listen in to this great conversation as Josephine shares… Continue reading 10 – Being Ghosted

9 – Identifying the Moments That Matter, With Tricia Brouk

When you think back on your life, are there pivotal memories or ambitions that stick out in your mind? What about ambitions that were not… Continue reading 9 – Identifying the Moments That Matter, With Tricia Brouk

8 – Ambitious in Career but Super Casual in Relationships

We chat with one of Josephine’s good friend’s about having no agenda for his social interactions despite being super focused and very ambitious professionally.  Listen… Continue reading 8 – Ambitious in Career but Super Casual in Relationships

7 – When Mr. Right Isn’t What You Pictured

Do you wait for Mr. Right who is seemingly perfect? Or accept an incredible partner even if they don’t check all the boxes? Listen in… Continue reading 7 – When Mr. Right Isn’t What You Pictured

6 – How Do I Tell My Friends I Am Bipolar?

If you are diagnosed with a personality or mood disorder, are you suddenly a different person? In this episode Alexandra and Josephine talk with Sam… Continue reading 6 – How Do I Tell My Friends I Am Bipolar?

5 – Is Home Where You Live or Where Your Parents Live?

Moving out of your home to find your own place in the world can feel both empowering and scary. During a pandemic, finding a safe… Continue reading 5 – Is Home Where You Live or Where Your Parents Live?

4 – Downsides of Being Mr. Nice Guy

Do nice guys finish last? In this episode, we hear how challenging it can be to know what you want when your focus is on… Continue reading 4 – Downsides of Being Mr. Nice Guy

3 – Learning from Jealousy

We have all experienced the feeling of being transformed by jealousy. Jealousy can cause strain and frustration in any relationship.  In this episode, Josephine’s ex-boyfriend… Continue reading 3 – Learning from Jealousy

2 – Is Sex For Me or My Partner?

As many women may feel, sexual experiences can often feel one-sided and like a chore. Many have shared that their body has been more of… Continue reading 2 – Is Sex For Me or My Partner?

1 – Introduction Episode

Welcome to What Should I Do? My name’s Alexandra Stockwell, and I’m a relationship and intimacy expert. When my 23-year-old daughter, Josephine, calls me seeking… Continue reading 1 – Introduction Episode

Where Your Bond Begins: Building Deep Intimacy Doesn’t Start With Sex

As part of a study, the Durex company interviewed 26,000 couples and found that 54 percent were dissatisfied with the quality of their relationships. Other… Continue reading Where Your Bond Begins: Building Deep Intimacy Doesn’t Start With Sex