Aligned & Hot Marriage

Deepen your emotional connection,
plus reignite the excitement & passion!

Remember dating… going out for supper or a drink (or even something as simple as a movie), having so much fun and feeling completely alive?

The slightest brush of their hand made you excited. Made you feel hot.

Nothing overtly sexual took place but…You were connected.


You were fascinated by one another. You were laughing, at ease.

You were exploring each other in a non-physical way. Knowing you would soon be exploring one another physically as well.

You were so turned on by your person, and your relationship.

Then somewhere along the way, it changes.

You feel tired and worn out. You're focused on kids, work, and your home. You're not as open to one another’s perspective as you used to be.

As the spark and excitement dwindle... you wonder if you're no longer desirable. Or maybe you want different things when it comes to intimacy and connection.

We're taught this is ‘what happens’ in relationships as though it's to be expected.

It’s not!

The problem is that you’re out of alignment.

Maybe it’s subtle and you’re the only one who feels it. Maybe your partner has noticed it too.

The people around you still think you have an amazing marriage, which can feel kind of confusing when you know you two could be so much closer, more attuned to one another both emotionally and sensually.

It’s hard to put your finger on it, but dissatisfaction and resentment have sneaked into your marriage and you don’t know what to do. (Or maybe you know exactly what the issue is, but you’re still not sure what to do about it.)

It’s especially complicated because when it comes to any other area in your life, you know how to identify the problem and handle it. You know how to make things happen and be successful but in your marriage… it’s different. 


It’s time to get back into alignment and turn up the heat.

It’s time to enjoy more closeness and connection.

It’s time to feel SEEN and HEARD, and safe enough to say absolutely anything-without your partner becoming defensive or checking out.

It’s time to feel confident that the two of you will resolve conflicts with KINDNESS and CLARITY.

It’s time to relax into the lusciousness of your body and share it with your beloved, discovering THE PLEASURE OF TOUCHING AND BEING TOUCHED in the most satisfying ways.

It’s time to fall in love all over again, feeling NEW DEPTH AND NEW DELIGHTS in your marriage.

It turns out that creating a joy-filled, juicy, intimate relationship has nothing to do with learning new positions in the bedroom.

It’s about crafting what happens before the bedroom, in your everyday interactions as you get everyone out the door in the morning, make dinner or put your kids to bed.

It’s about feeling connected while immersed in a work project, overseeing your kitchen renovation, or figuring out when to take your next family vacation.

It’s about nourishing your erotic connection when you’re touching one another and when you aren’t. 

That’s the missing piece!

That’s what paves the way to a truly  Aligned & Hot Marriage. 

You already know how to learn new skills and create amazing results, both personally and professionally-it’s no different when it comes to improving your relationship.

I will show you how!

I’ll teach you how to bring all of who you are to your relationship, while inviting your partner to do the same.

You don’t need to play games, be controlling, or hide your emotions to get your needs met. When you learn to bring everything to your relationship including the good, the bad, the messy, the striving, the insecure, the superstar, and the badass, you will be amazed at how fantastic you feel!

I’ll show you how to make it safe for both of you… so it can be so ooh la la sexy too!

About Dr Alexandra

Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is an Intimate Marriage Expert. She is the bestselling author of Uncompromising Intimacy, host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, and the creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.


For over 20 years, she has shown men and women how to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life–from the daily grind of running a household, to clear and intimate communication, to ecstatic experiences in the bedroom!


She believes the key to passion, fulfillment, intimacy, and success in a couple’s relationship isn’t compromise–it’s being unwilling to compromise–because when both people feel free to be themselves, and know how to love and be loved for exactly who they are, the relationship is juicy, nourishing, and deeply satisfying.


Dr. Alexandra has been featured in the Huffington Post, Rolling Stone, Cosmopolitan, USAToday, Business Insider, InStyle, FOX News NYC, and many other publications.


“The Aligned & Hot Marriage program doesn’t focus on having sex… but it focused on the things that made me crave more closeness with my husband.

Just as I was amazed at HOW MUCH LOVE I could feel as a mother… I am now amazed at just HOW MUCH DEPTH is possible in marriage.

For ages, our single friends have held us up as “couples goals” and I felt like such a fraud because I knew we didn’t have much romantic intimacy…but now that title feels pretty damn spot on!”

- Marissa Ramirez

My marriage was rock solid at its foundation but the physical passion we once shared for one another had softened.

Things between my husband and I weren’t falling apart or anything like that.

But, I didn’t realize how much intimacy was missing from our marriage until things started to really improve!

Alexandra is absolutely right, when the intimacy ignites in your relationship…passion shows up all on its own!

We have probably “connected” more in the six months since we completed this program than in the entire six years prior (after becoming parents). I highly recommend this program to anyone who knows their partnership has room for improvement, especially if you miss the fresh passion from when things were shiny and new.”

- M.R.

“After years of arguing, conflict, and hurt feelings, now we regularly create family events which are fun for everyone, emotionally safe, and really nourishing for me.

I am happy to feel in harmony in all of my important relationships, and really in love with my husband.”

- Tamika, Founder and CEO

You will learn to:

  • Identify what it will take for you both to BE HAPPY (emotionally and physically)
  • FEEL FANTASTIC when sharing your thoughts and feelings with your partner (even if the topic is difficult)
  • Have a lot more FUN TOGETHER (without the baggage of resentment and dissatisfaction)
  • Listen with CONFIDENCE when your partner expresses dissatisfaction
  • Experience the deliciousness and joy of a PASSIONATE, growth-oriented relationship
  • Stop compromising and enjoy MORE INTIMACY

The Aligned & Hot Marriage Program includes:

  • The 6 keys to an Aligned and Hot Marriage so that you and your partner can enjoy a dynamic, joy-filled, passionate marriage where you understand one another and feel closer and more connected.
  • Fun activities that will help you understand one another’s needs, desires, and points of view.
  • Access to the wisdom of an MD turned Intimate Marriage Expert who has an incredible, sizzling marriage with her husband of 26 years and has coached hundreds of other couples to create their own version of an aligned & hot marriage. 


“With Dr. Alexandra’s guidance, we have more connection, understanding, and love than ever before.
I wish every couple could experience what she offers. I never could have imagined what would unfold, and how I could become a more authentic and powerful version of ME in the process.”

- Emma Andre, Doctor

“Alexandra is deeply caring and supportive–she speaks directly to what you need to hear to get unstuck. We had a great relationship before, and now it’s fantastic!”

- Marie-Elizabeth Mali, TEDx Speaker

“The Aligned & Hot Marriage program inspired Greg and I to spend time focused on our relationship, learning how we react and respond to one another, and understanding what makes us tick.

It’s been great because for much of our relationship, we have simply lived our lives together, without putting much thought into why we react the way we do toward the things that are annoying, and those that are great.
Hearing about the struggles and celebrations of other couples was helpful, and inspiring. I also really loved Alexandra’s suggestions on how to bring more play into how we communicate with one another.

This program has been an invaluable tool for us to connect more.”

- Kari Lynn Morgan, Relationship Coach

Through the Aligned & Hot Marriage program and Alexandra’s guidance and support, we have already progressed more in a few weeks than in our 4 years together.”

- Kelsey Blakeway, Entrepreneur


It is best for you and your partner to do the program together, however,
you will get a great deal of benefit if you do it on your own.

No. The investment is the same whether you do it yourself or your partner joins you.

You will have access for as long as the program is available, and you may download the workbooks and keep them forever.

The Aligned & Hot Marriage program is designed for busy couples with full lives, however, reigniting the spark and deepening your connection takes time, attention, and a willingness to prioritize your relationship.

Couples report that it usually takes 30-45 minutes per week–some weeks are shorter and others are longer (when the material sparks an interesting conversation that you choose to continue)!

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