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Reclaim fantastic marital intimacy, and reignite the spark that’s been eroded by the busyness of your life!

Aligned &
Hot Marriage

With Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Deepen your emotional connection,
plus reignite the excitement & passion!

As a result of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program,

I am now amazed at just HOW MUCH DEPTH is possible in my marriage.


You’re on this page because you are looking for answers… your marriage is not “broken”, and to be honest, you really are not sure what has you yearning for more.


Your relationship is solid and strong. You are committed to one another and the life you share.


You have friends who look up to you and your relationship, with genuine admiration.

But… you (and perhaps your partner too) feel lonely within the relationship…

The physical intimacy is a letdown… it’s definitely not what you pictured 

when you got married.

Or maybe things are really pretty good, but you know they could be a whole lot better-you aren’t sure how to get there, and don’t quite know what you’re aiming for.


Whatever your situation, one thing is clear and that is that you don’t know how to improve things on your own. You are so good at problem solving in other areas, but improving your relationship is too hard to figure out.


That’s where I come in… For over 20 years, I have helped men and women bring back pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life-from the daily grind of running a household, to clear and  intimate communication, to ecstatic experiences in the bedroom! The results have been life-changing, for both the couple and their family.

It's time to explore creating a deeper, more intimate relationship than you've ever known before.

Can you relate to any of these?

  • You long to have a deep intimate connection in your marriage-yet, feel a big mismatch in desire. 
  • You crave better communication and would love step-by-step guidance on how to (do that, because you are convinced it doesn’t always have to be so complicated).
  • The relationship you once had, filled with passion, connection, and lots of lovemaking has become a distant memory, and you’re not sure how to get back to that.
  • You want to be SEEN and HEARD, feeling safe enough to say absolutely anything without your partner becoming defensive or checking out. 
  • You are ready to let go of shame and relax into the lusciousness of your body, sharing it with your beloved. You are ready to discover THE PLEASURE OF TOUCHING AND BEING TOUCHED in the most erotic and satisfying ways.
  • You realize there’s more desire simmering inside you, and you are excited to explore how much better it can get. 

There is absolutely no benefit to waiting to heal and transform your relationship – none!!

Do you feel your marriage is out of alignment?

Not on the same page when it comes to emotional closeness or sensual intimacy?
Maybe this sounds familiar...

Why am I feeling this way; our marriage is better than most?

“It has been this way for so many years; I don’t even remember what sexy feels like–honestly.”

I have so much on my plate; how can I possibly make time to enjoy a juicy intimate relationship?

“We tried marriage counseling with very little impact. Will this really help?”

“Am I selfish to want to feel fulfilled? I live a good life, and most people would do anything for what I have? Shouldn’t I be satisfied even without the passion?”

I’ve had these same fears-every one of them. So, I get it. But let me ask you this…

Do these concerns (justifications) serve you? Are they even true?


Twenty years ago I embarked on this journey, not only for my patients but for myself and my own relationship. I wanted more for my life and my marriage than logistics, and discussions about our children.


I wanted to look forward to connecting with my husband after we were both done with our workday–every day! I wanted to feel alive and lit up, passionate about my marriage, and my life. I looked for help in achieving this goal, but what I found was a lot of information for singles, younger couples who weren’t looking for marriage, and those on the verge of divorce. There was hardly any guidance available for committed couples like my husband and me.


So I took what was offered and figured out how to implement and expand it in ways that worked for us, with our successful careers and busy family life. We’ve been living our authentic version of “happily ever after” ever since.


I want this level of passion, joy, and fulfillment FOR YOU!

I'm the best-selling author of
"Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, and I've helped thousands of couples fall in love all over again, feeling NEW DEPTH and NEW DELIGHT in their marriage.

I want to teach you the exact same methods I use in my own 26 year marriage, so that you too can grow in the most delicious ways, becoming the couple you were always meant to be. 


What I know for sure is the key to passion, fulfillment, intimacy, and success isn’t compromise-it’s being unwilling to compromise. When both people feel free to be themselves and know how to love and be loved for exactly who they are, the relationship is juicy, nourishing, and deeply satisfying. 

You too, can take pleasure in the joy of an Aligned & Hot Marriage.
One with deep connection, reverence, and love for one another!

Aligned & Hot Marriage

With Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Cultivate Curiosity

to keep things fresh and engaging.

Embrace Honesty

so you aren’t carrying things by yourself anymore.

Be Kind

because that’s part of being on the same team.

Choose Happiness

and life becomes easier and more fun.

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Take Responsibility

It’s part of being an emotional adult, sovereign and whole.

Seek Growth

it’s the most empowering, sexy way to live.


Learn at your own pace as you'll have lifetime access to the content and can return to the material at any time.


Welcome to the Aligned & Hot Marriage program!!

As a result of completing this module you will:

  • appreciate that you are taking action to create the relationship you desire
  • be willing to consider new ideas and learn new ways of interacting with one another
  • hear Dr. Alexandra’s story and what inspired her to create this program


Cultivate Curiosity

As a result of completing this module you will:
  • know how to Cultivate Curiosity
  • understand the importance of curiosity in creating connection
  • enjoy the playfulness that comes with asking open-ended questions
  • practice using a simple tool that will transform any conflict


Embrace Honesty

As a result of completing this module you will:
  • know how to speak with your partner so they listen
  • understand the difference between brutal honesty and vulnerable honesty
  • enjoy letting go of compromise and bringing all of yourself to your relationship
  • practice using the 3-part method to successfully share vulnerable truths


Be Kind

As a result of completing this module you will:
  • know the secret to overcoming frustrating or harmful patterns in your relationship
  • understand the difference between being “nice” and being “kind”
  • enjoy experiencing how conflict can lead to a deeper connection between you and your partner
  • practice doing a “Conscious Redo”


Choose Happiness

As a result of completing this module you will:
  • know that being right and winning arguments is overrated
  • understand the importance of clearing resentments
  • enjoy the personal power  that grows with a win-win approach
  • practice choosing happiness and reap the benefits from doing so


Take Responsibility

As a result of completing this module you will:
  • know the importance of taking 100% responsibility for the quality of your marriage
  • understand the events of your life as happening to you vs happening for you
  • enjoy implementing simple ways to improve your relationship
  • practice different ways to express your appreciation of your partner


Seek Growth

As a result of completing this module you will:

  • know a variety of ways to seek growth, together
  • understand the importance of ongoing personal growth for maintaining passion
  • enjoy clarifying the foundation of your relationship
  • create a vision statement for an Aligned & Hot Marriage


Celebration & Graduation

As a result of completing this module you will:

  • focus on celebrating in ways that delight you both
  • take stock of how far you’ve come
  • reflect on how good it can be in your Aligned & Hot Marriage
  • clarify how you will maintain forward momentum

Enrollment is now open!

The Intimate Marriage Community

In the Intimate Marriage Facebook group you have an opportunity to connect with like-minded people wanting to learn from Alexandra Stockwell, MD. Use the group to share your wins, ask questions, and learn from others’ experiences, and to receive direct feedback from Dr. Alexandra.

Everything has changed since I joined the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.

This program offers a quick path to an even more pleasure-filled relationship and I will forever be glad we chose to enroll.


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$1,997.00 usd

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best value

one time payment

$1,997.00 usd

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Meet Dr. Alexandra

Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is an Intimate Marriage Expert. She is the bestselling author of Uncompromising Intimacy, host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, and the creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.

For over 20 years she’s been showing men and women how to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life–from the daily grind of running a household, to clear and intimate communication, to ecstatic experiences in the bedroom.

A wife of 26 years and mother of 4, Dr. Alexandra believes the key to passion, fulfillment, intimacy and success, isn’t compromise–it’s being unwilling to compromise–because when both people feel free to be themselves, and know how to love and be loved for exactly who they are, the relationship is juicy, nourishing, and deeply satisfying.

She’s been featured in the Huffington Post, Rolling Stone, Cosmopolitan, USAToday, Business Insider, InStyle, FOX News NYC, and many other publications.

Low monthly

2 monthly payments

$1,997.00 usd

SAVE $---

best value

one time payment

$1,997.00 usd


It is best for you and your partner to do the program together, however,
you will get a great deal of benefit if you do it on your own.

No. The investment is the same whether you do it yourself or your partner joins you.

You will have access for as long as the program is available, and you may download the workbooks and keep them forever.

The Aligned & Hot Marriage program is designed for busy couples with full lives, however, reigniting the spark and deepening your connection takes time, attention, and a willingness to prioritize your relationship.

Couples report that it usually takes 30-45 minutes per week–some weeks are shorter and others are longer (when the material sparks an interesting conversation that you choose to continue)!

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