I'm on a mission to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of
stagnation and companionship to the delectable joy a couple can feel when they build passion and
excitement to nourish them both.


Relationships are the spice of life.

The glue that holds us together.

And the celebration we all deserve.

Hi, my name is Alexandra Stockwell, MD and I am an Intimate Marriage Expert.

After twelve years in medicine helping families heal their bodies, I studied the science and art of emotional and sensual connection to help my patients heal their relationships as well.

Now, for over two decades, I have been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose back into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom!

I embarked on this journey not only for my patients but for myself and my own relationship.


I wanted more for my life and my marriage than logistics, and discussions about childcare.

I wanted the passion.

The sparkle.

The fire!

I wanted to look forward to connecting with my husband after we were both done with our day.

Every day.

And as I looked around, what I found was a lot of information for singles and younger couples disinterested in marriage; but not much guidance available for committed couples like me and my husband.

So I took what was offered and figured out how to implement it in a way that worked for us with our successful careers and busy family life.

Then I began to share that information and guidance with my clients.

The transformation in their lives was as great as it was in mine!

When you create joy in daily life, a strong emotional connection and extremely satisfying sensual intimacy with your spouse, everything gets better.

What changed for us in our private life had an immediate positive effect on every area of our personal and professional lives.

For me, feeling supported and truly seen for the woman I am, lead to improved friendships, and brought me courage, collaboration and outside-the-box thinking with clients, students, and peers.

With the foundation of a juicy solid relationship, I am able to work on projects and serve others with vitality and focus.

My husband had a similar experience. Being supported, knowing I wholeheartedly believe in him and have his back, enables him to take more risks at work, create more innovative collaborations, rise up in the ranks, and impact many others through inspiring leadership.

And in our interactions, it was like watering a chia pet; all the dormant parts of our relationship came to life! We now have a passionate sex life and truly are one another’s best friends.

I want this level of passion, joy, and fulfillment FOR YOU!

I want you to realize that the most beautiful thing in the world is a committed relationship where both partners thrive BECAUSE they are together.

And I can show you how.

Even if you think your relationship is beyond hope...

It’s likely that you and your partner love each other very much.

You have a wonderful family, beautiful children, financial stability. To others—it looks like you have it all!

But underneath…you yearn to have YOUR needs met.

And having tried everything, you still don’t know how to make it happen.

Maybe you can see that a part of you is dying. Without the love, attention, nourishment, and joy that comes from a deep emotional connection and a juicy sex life with the one you love, you’re tired, worn out, and resentments begin to grow.

But you're committed to making it work for the children.

But the children are also suffering from the strain of your painful and hollow relationship with your spouse.

I'm here to tell you the life you want, the life you deserve, is attainable.

Because this is how I felt before my husband and I transformed our relationship. 

Having met in medical school, our relationship grew and deepened over time—as did our family and responsibilities. However, we took far too long to admit to ourselves the growing hollowness inside each of us- and even longer to admit it to each other.


But, once we did admit it, we also accessed the possibility of changing it.

I’ve now been married for 25 years, and I am grateful to spend every day with my best friend, whom I can't wait to jump into bed with.


We have four children, meaningful careers, and we also have a passionate love life and nourishing emotional connection.


And when we see each other we light up at the opportunity to connect, whether it’s sharing the ups and downs of our days, or getting into bed to explore one another’s bodies.

And this is why I've dedicated my time and my life to sharing this with you- so that you too can experience the unbridled joy of a relationship rekindled.

So that you can erase the tension from your home.

From your shoulders.

Instead, that shoulder rub you've been waiting for is coming...

So, please, reach out by filling out this form and let’s connect!

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Do you want to delight in your partner again?

If you're ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, read this.

Get started with a complementary free chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book “Uncompromising Intimacy”

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Our relationship before working with Alexandra was a roller coaster of emotions, reactivity and explosive arguments. We were both exhausted by the constant struggle and at our wits end of what to do. We both questioned our decision to get married and broke our engagement several times out of anger and frustration. 

We now are a happily married couple who has built a foundation for a life together. We have learned how to navigate our own emotional challenges and take better care of each other. Though we still have a lot of learning to do, we have come a long way to understand and respect each other even when we disagree or are hurt.

 Through working with Alexandra, we have been able to stay connected to our love for each other, see through the challenges to what personal growth needed to be done and calm the storms between us through new awareness and targeted tools.

- Julia & Andrew