Hello, I'm Alexandra Stockwell, MD
I help couples create Conscious Partnerships that are juicy, sensual, and dynamic, in order to prevent the “conscious uncoupling” that’s become so common these days.
It’s likely that you and your partner love each other very much. You have a wonderful family, beautiful children, meaningful work. You make sure that everyone is taken care of. To others—it looks like you have it all. But underneath…you yearn to be nourished, to have YOUR needs met. And you don’t know how to make it happen.
A part of you is dying without the love, attention, nourishment, and joy that comes from emotional connection and a juicy sex life with the one you love. Without it, you’re tired, worn out, and resentments have begun to grow. You wonder how much longer you will be able to give to others unless you figure out how to nourish yourself and be fed by your relationship.
I understand how that feels. I have been married for 23 years. My husband and I have four children, meaningful careers, and we also have a passionate love life and nourishing emotional connection. We can’t wait to see each other at the end of each day—after the children are in bed we light up at the opportunity to connect, whether it’s sharing the ups and downs of our days, or getting into bed to explore one another’s bodies.
But, believe me, it wasn’t always that way.
Our relationship started in medical school. We would sit next to each other in every class and often passed notes like flirtatious middle schoolers! But we also worked hard to succeed in medical school, and then in residency. As years passed, kids came along, careers progressed, and responsibilities grew.
While we were aligned in our parenting and other priorities and we loved one another very much, there was a growing hollowness in each of us. We took far too long for us to admit it to ourselves; we took even longer to admit it to one another.
But, once we did admit it, we also accessed the possibility of changing it.
We worked with various therapists and coaches, we read books, we just plain spent time together—listening and getting to know one another all over again.
And, like watering a chia pet, the dormant parts of our relationship came to life! We now have a passionate sex life and truly are one another’s best friends. Our conversations used to be mostly logistical and focused on our children’s needs—now we share our intimate secrets and do the work to use every communication, on any topic, to bring us closer.
Honestly, it’s not really work anymore—it’s play!
Our relationship is transformed, and so are we! Even our children’s lives changed. They became happier, more at ease, and they laugh more often. Our whole family blossomed!
What changed for us in our private life literally had an immediate positive effect on every area of our personal and professional lives. Feeling supported, and truly seen for the woman I am, lead to increased confidence and greater openheartedness. This in turn has improved my friendships, and brought me ease, courage, collaboration and outside-the-box thinking with clients, students, and peers. With the foundation of a juicy solid relationship, I am able to work on projects and serve others with vitality and focus which consistently brings more results for those I work with and more success for me. My husband has a similar experience. Being supported, knowing I wholeheartedly believe in him and have his back, has him taking more risks at work, creating more innovative collaborations, being promoted, and impacting many others through inspiring leadership.
I want this level of passion, joy and fulfillment FOR YOU! I want both of you to be emotionally and sexually nourished. I want both of you to LOVE YOUR LIVES. And I want your children to grow up imprinted with joy and connection.
That’s why I created programs to help couples like you. No matter which one you choose, you will get the step-by-step instructions that you and your partner need to heal resentment and co-create an open-hearted, nourishing, sexy relationship. You will confidently move past the stranglehold of old patterns and learn to create new ones based in honesty, vulnerability, and trust.
In short, you will learn to feel joy coursing through your body and soul, lit up by who you are and the relationship you have. You know it’s possible so now it’s time to learn how.
Maybe you're wondering what qualifies me to lead you into Conscious Partnering.
I’m a Physician turned Relationship and Intimacy Expert, known as The Relationship Catalyst, and for more than 2 decades I have been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose back into all aspects of life—from the daily grind of running a household, to successfully growing a business, to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom!
After twelve years in medicine helping families heal their bodies and their relationships, I studied the science and the art of emotional and sensual connection. Most of the training I found were for singles and younger couples disinterested in marriage. There wasn’t much available for committed couples like me and my husband. Wanting more joy and pleasure in my own marriage, I took what was offered and figured out how to implement it in a way that worked for us with our successful careers and busy family life.
After creating joy in daily life, emotional connection, and extremely satisfying sensual intimacy with my husband, I discovered the type of training and support couples need most. I created my programs based on my unique combination of experience as a physician, the various training I’ve done, the success of my own marriage, the success of the couples I’ve coached, and available scientific research. These programs help others create the joy, freedom, and connection they want.
Let's talk about how you can create the relationship you really want.