Relationship and intimacy coaching is for you when you want to learn new skills in order to deepen your connection with your spouse and experience more emotional, sensual, and/or erotic intimacy. 

With educated, high achieving professionals, this is a sophisticated, nuanced process involving bringing to light the underlying dynamic between you and your spouse, and transforming it through precise, artful guidance that respects the unique circumstances of your marriage. The result is that you enjoy one another more, both in and out of the bedroom.

Therapists often focus on what has happened in the past as a way to improve the present. You discuss how and when your feelings were hurt in order to understand one another better.

In contrast, relationship and intimacy coaching provides a solution oriented approach so you feel seen and heard, confidently deepen connection, and rekindle passion. This results in feeling cherished, respected, and successful in your marriage. 

Couples are often surprised to experience notable improvement after just one session. To completely uplevel the culture of your marriage usually takes 3-6 months, and sometimes longer, depending on the quality of your relationship when you start.

The main criteria is a willingness to learn and a commitment to take action. If you bring those qualities, and Dr. Alexandra accepts you as clients, it will work for you–without exception.

There are many options, depending on your chosen level of time, energy, and financial commitment.

The Intimate Marriage Podcast is a free weekly resource providing lots of valuable content.
Uncompromising Intimacy is Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book on how to rekindle the emotional connection in your relationship (which paves the way for better sex).

The Aligned & Hot Marriage program is a highly effective, transformational, independent study program which will teach you the skills you need to enjoy a juicy, nourishing, intimate, passionate marriage. $599.

Private Relationship and Intimacy Coaching is for educated, high achieving couples who want to experience more intimacy and passion. They know how to problem solve and make things happen in other areas of their lives and want to develop the same competency in addressing issues and challenges in their marriage. Private coaching always begins with an in-depth Initial Consultation, involving an investment of $1000. Ongoing coaching for highly motivated couples is a 5 figure investment resulting in the dismantling of your old patterns and creating new ways of relating that feel authentic, exciting, and singularly suited to both individual’s needs and desires. In the process a joy-filled, passionate legacy is created with both immediate and long term impact for the whole family.